Just when your absentee love makes your heart grow lonely, sizzle up through a telesex or phone sex. It is the perfect way to liven up your relationship and get intimately reconnected to your husband or boyfriend.
Kinky talks aren’t as tricky as you think. With your erotic imagination, you may share your steamy desires, describe details of your fantasy or make him wild as you tell him, step-by-step, what you wish you were doing to him or him to you. You don’t have to masturbate if you don’t want to. All you have to do is to give the person on the other side what he wants to hear and feel.
Once you find your libido oozing as soon as you dial his number, lie back and imagine a steamy bedroom encounter with your guy. Start pleasuring yourself and when you’re hot and kinky, call him. Get a rise out of your guy by starting to change your voice, speaking very slow at first and keep it down, make him imagine things. Up the sexual antenna by saying something like, “I’m stroking my tits and I’m starting to get wet.”
When you find yourself a little tongue-tied, ease yourself into a more intimate exchange by saying simple phrases like, “I wish I was getting hot and bothered with you now”. That should be enough to give him the hardness and be in the mood to listen to what his girl is up to.
If initiating a kinky conversation isn’t your style, suggest your boyfriend takes the lead. Just, relax, close your eyes and concentrate on every lustful word. As you grope yourself, imagine that you’re feeling his tantalizing fingers caressing your skin. It’s okay to feel shy at first. Just moan or sigh while he narrates a naughty story. As the encounter heats up, you may be very surprised at the frisky phrases that pop out of your mouth.