Keep your love-life sizzles with sexting. A real hit to create anticipation and build-up enthusiasm throughout your day, boosts your libido and add some newness and variety to your usual sexual routine.
Referred more generally as “flirtexting”, sexting is the explicit sexual conversation through text, meant to sexually excite one another. It can actually be a great way to sizzle up your sex life. Sext can be as simple as telling your partner what you want to do when you see him later.
Do sext only with someone you’ve known for some time and you truly trust. Don’t take the risk of having your photo leaked or your saucy messages forwarded, turning off the person on the receiving end, or having the photo get into the wrong hands.
Don’t use sexting as a way to pick up a partner. While texting is fine, sexting is not. Use sexting as a way to flirt with your partner and keep romance alive. If you have teens, caution them about the dangers of sexting. It can cause a lot of trouble if improperly used.
Do start slow.
Start casually. Tease him toward the main event but begin gingerly by a little caress and nibbling just like in real-life foreplay. You don’t have to wait for the fellow to start the sexting. If you are looking for a power play in your relationship, be a text message minx and send him a naughty note first. Guys can’t resist a girl who knows what she wants in the bedroom and on her Iphone.
Don’t include your face in a naked photo text. The photo may end up being seen by someone you know and people will forward those pictures to others. If you must send photos, use sext shots that don’t feature your face. Yes, your breasts could still become the naked email of the day but at least when they land in your boss’ inbox, they won’t have your ladylike face attached.
Do delete any sexts or photos after viewing them. Kids are more tech-savvy than you think and they might get hold of the phone and access your photos. Imagine your mom having a view of your “penis” message or your brother seeing you going down on some guy. Also remember that very unsettling feeling the next time you are about to press “send” after finishing up an explicit text or e-mail. Proof read.
Don’t be a turn off by being overly eager. If he is begging for you to send sexy picture of yourself and you’re totally uncomfortable with it, use a tease. Rein in your enthusiasm from time to time and use your imagination to respond to his messages. This makes you appear easy-going and laid back.
Do it in perfect timing. Most people are not going to be keen on text messages after a certain hour. If you sext somebody after 10 p.m, it’s considered a late-night booty call. A 3 a.m. text out of the blue is very unbecoming and can fall upon deaf ears only to be rendered obsolete the next morning. Start off between 7:30 and 10:00 p.m.
DON’T engage in cellular infidelity. Save sexting for the sanctity of marriage. But if you must sext, please sext safely. As Congressman Weiner can now attest, doing it with someone outside of your marriage or relationship is a form of cheating.